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When Bias Clouds Justice

In our society, people often form quick opinions about a person or situation even before they know the full truth. Many times, these opinions come from personal bias, social media influence, or what others around them are saying. Because of this, people sometimes overlook the judgement given by the court, which is actually based on proper evidence, legal procedures, and facts checked by trained professionals. A court may take time to arrive at a verdict, but it follows a fair process. However, people outside may jump to conclusions within minutes. This tendency becomes dangerous when it turns into mob justice. A group of people, driven by anger or emotion, may act against someone without knowing the full story. Mob justice has destroyed the life and dignity of many innocent people who later turned out to be not guilty. Once a person’s name and reputation are damaged in public, it is very difficult to rebuild it, even if the court later proves their innocence. Families suffer, livelihoo...

Enshittification!

I came across this article in The Hindu newspaper through a friend’s status, and it introduced me to the word “Enshittification.”  The article explains in a very clear way how many apps and online platforms start off very useful and friendly, but slowly become worse because of poor decisions, too many ads, and ignoring what users actually want. I really liked how the article discussed this problem in simple language and would definitely recommend reading this article. It is easy to understand, very relevant, and helps us see the bigger picture behind the changing behaviour of tech companies today. Link: https://www.pressreader.com/india/the-hindu-international-9BN2/20251103/282029038476823

A Grateful Goodbye to Tesco!

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Yesterday was my last working day at Tesco, and I cannot stop thinking about the wonderful 22 months I spent here. When I first came to this new country, far away from home, Tesco gave me the first opportunity at a time when I truly needed one. It played a very important role in my survival, helping me, when I stepped out of my comfort zone to do my MBA and start again from zero. For that, I will always remain grateful. During these months, I was blessed to work with great managers - Steve, Dave and Jamal, who always guided and supported me. I also had the chance to learn from amazing shift leaders like John, Ethan, Dylan, Jamie and Nicola, who were always patient and encouraging. And what a fantastic team of colleagues I had around me! Craig, Erin, Stuart, Lewis, Eve, Lynsey, Jess, Gaz, Connor, Darcey, Maggie, Zain, Fin and Kyrsten, each of you made my days brighter with your kindness, friendship and fun spirit. And of course, how can I forget our guardian of Tesco, Festes, who was ...

One Picture, Many Views – What the Kerala Tourism F-35 Ad Teaches Us About Perception

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Recently, Kerala Tourism had shared a creative post on social media using an image of a Royal Navy F-35 jet that had ended up stranded at Thiruvananthapuram International Airport in Kerala,India due to a technical glitch. It was also widely reshared on social media platforms by all, including the writer. For many, this was a light-hearted and clever way to promote tourism, turning an unexpected event into an opportunity for positive attention. But not everyone saw it that way. The British media  described it as India mocking the Royal Navy, showing how the same image and message can be perceived in completely different ways. This situation reminds us how people can view the same thing from different angles, depending on their background, emotions, and beliefs. For some, the ad was simply witty and harmless. For others, especially those connected to the British military, it may have felt disrespectful or inappropriate. The difference in reactions was not about right or wrong, it ...

Redefining Friendship

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As I grow older, I am beginning to look at friendship differently. There have been many times when I came to know about someone’s happy moments or hard times, not through a message or a call, but from a WhatsApp status, an Instagram post, or even through someone else. And it has happened more than once. Each time, it left a small ache. Because I had thought we were close. I have realized that real friendship is more than reacting to stories or liking posts. It is about being part of each other’s real lives, not just the digital one. It is about reaching out, checking in, and sharing, directly and personally. It is okay if we don’t talk every day. But if you think of me when something important happens whether it is joy or sadness and you choose to tell me, then that’s friendship. If we are only watching each other’s lives from a distance, like silent spectators, maybe we are not friends. And that is okay too. I am learning to accept, to let go gently, and to value the ones who still ch...

When Brands Don’t Understand “STOP”: My Weird WhatsApp Experience with Louis Philippe

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I recently had a funny but also frustrating experience with the WhatsApp channel of a premium Indian clothing brand - Louis Philippe (LP) under Aditya Birla Fashion and Retail Ltd. It’s a name that sounds classy, but the way they handle customer data and privacy? Not so much. One day, I received a WhatsApp message from Louis Philippe (LP) on my personal number. I was surprised because I had never shared my number with them or signed up for any messages. But there it was, an ad from a brand I didn’t care about. In India, it’s common for brands and their partner agencies to collect personal details like names, phone numbers, emails, and even home addresses. Most of the time, they use this information to send marketing messages  without asking us. Consent is often ignored. As anyone would, I replied with “STOP” hoping the messages would end. To my surprise, LP actually replied. They politely said they would stop sending messages and thanked me for the feedback. I thought that was th...

Happy retired life Acha!

Ever since I was a young boy, I’ve always looked up to one person in my life - my father. I’ve often wondered how he manages to do so many incredible things with such limited resources, both at work and at home. From starting as an apprentice to completing 40 years of service at Cochin Refineries Ltd, which later became Kochi Refineries Ltd and now BPCL Kochi Refinery, he retired on April 30th with pride and honour. Wishing you all the best in your retired life, Acha. Thank you for being such an inspiration and role model to me. You are the best manager, entrepreneur, and family man I’ve ever known. Keep chasing new adventures!